Foster care has become an essential choice in our urban life. When we are on a business trip, going abroad, traveling or having some temporary things at home and can't take our children with us, foster care seems to be our only choice. Previously, some foreshadowing has been made for the choice and preparation of foster care through how to choose the way of foster care and the items prepared for foster care. Now, after coming back from foster care for the child, I have also made a reflection and summary of the problems and situations that occurred in the process of foster care, hoping to help you ~
Trust the caregiver fully
In the process of foster care, full trust is the first principle to follow. Now that we have given it to the other party, after the preliminary investigation and preparation, we should recognize or acquiesce that the other party is reliable and caring, and can help us take good care of the dog, so after the preliminary investigation. Now that you have chosen this hotel, you should fully trust it. Of course, there must be a lot of inquiries. Not to say that trust is to let go, I personally am not so big, every day basically no matter whether the caregivers take the initiative to send videos, I will probably ask, how Xiaobai and Nana eat, how they sleep, how they adapt to the environment, whether they defecate on time, I will probably ask ~ Fortunately, our caregivers are very good, there are basically photos and videos every day. It will also be more reassuring ~
Adequate communication in the foster care process
Communicate with any problems! For example, my two dogs began to wear the wrong chest and back. Don't be embarrassed. Ask questions in a timely manner. Or if there are other reasonable requirements, it is no problem to communicate in time.
Normal view of emergency response
Pets have some emergency reactions to changing environments, such as not adapting to walking back and forth, not sleeping, barking, or diarrhea, excessive licking, and even self-mutilation caused by anxiety. This is why it is necessary to find a more reliable foster. Correct guidance and some healing AIDS will help children get through the emergency response period. This foster care, Xiaobai and Nana performance is OK, Xiaobai has been more vigilant, Nana basically went to adapt. The only problem is that Xiaobai doesn't sleep at night because of separation anxiety, walks back and forth and barks. This is normal, the owner should not be anxious outside, and trust the ability of the caretaker to take good care of the dog.
Treat the child's reaction correctly when he comes back.
At the end of foster care, there may be two kinds of reactions, one is no change, to see you are particularly kind, and the other is not good in the foster family, may also be wronged, may also feel that "parents" do not want themselves, become cautious, if the first is of course the best, if it is the second, we must find out the reason. Is there any unexpected stimulation in the foster family, or is there any problem, or just feel that "parents" do not want themselves, at this time if there is any abnormal behavior, must not be beaten and scolded, to be patient, to give enough love, at the same time to understand the reasons, directly attack the root cause!
Necessary medicines must be brought.
Such as bad heart, blood pressure problems and so on. Common, such as: trauma medicine, probiotics should be taken. Emergency response Diarrhea needs to be observed. First of all, confirm that it is not a serious illness. Before sending foster care, I have communicated with foster care. If you need to see a doctor, please send it to a familiar hospital. When you come back, the cost will be settled. There are still problems to communicate in time. Personally, I think there is nothing more important than timely communication. In the past, I brought probiotics and fairy water with Xiaobai and Nana. I didn't bring too many things, but if I had a basic disease, I would bring more.
Pick up the children and prepare some accompanying gifts.
This is not necessary, but I think the foster care is very hard to take care of the baby, but also very meticulous care, every day to comb, feed, walk around, accompany play, children are also more naughty, really spend a lot of effort, prepared a small gift, to express their feelings. The distance between people is very far and very close. If you think this hotel is good, you will inevitably send it again in the future. To maintain a good relationship with the caregivers, I think there is no problem.
